scotiax: By far the most horrible people I have to deal with are the guys who grew up strictly...

scotiax:

By far the most horrible people I have to deal with are the guys who grew up strictly being told that everything sexual is shameful and disgusting and so are they if they think about it so they internalized that and then they sexualized their self-loathing about sex so now they ONLY get off by being as repulsive and depraved as possible like just saying and acting absolutely disgusting because that’s the height of arousal for them because the only way they can be sexual is by treating their desires as a form of self-humiliation and taking it as far as possible every time. 

And honestly this is the true reason we fucking need comprehensive sex-ed because every time I have to talk to one of these guys I feel nauseous for like a week later, I’m a good person I don’t deserve having to listen to that horrorshow for fucks sake SAVE A SEX WORKER, STOP TEACHING PEOPLE TO HATE THEMSELVES FOR MASTURBATING.