So I’m guessing you’re the one who sent me that “compliment” where you called me a “thick female” and said I was your thing?
See, that’s not a compliment. That’s weird and fetishising and I’m not into it at all.
My self confidence is mine, it is my own and it is something I worked hard to get and work harder to keep. Taking a compliment was once really hard for me, if someone (especially a guy) thought I was pretty I was certain it was part of a cruel practical joke, that he was just trying to hurt me.
But I can take a compliment now, they make me happy now and I feel them regardless of gender. I have a guy friend who messages me all the time to tell me “cute selfies” or to say my smile is sweet and I accept those compliments.
Treating me like I am your fetish is not a compliment, treating me like I should be lucky to be 130% of your “thing” is not ok with me at all.
Your whole thing about “fat bitches with attitude” tells me that you like fat women and delight in their low self esteem. You don’t just appreciate our beauty, you want us to be a little broken so that we need you and very likely so we don’t look too closely at you and who you really are.
The implication here is that, because I am fat, I should be fucking grateful that you think I’m pretty. I should be grateful to be a part of your fetish. I should be grateful you deemed me worthy of being noticed.
I’m not grateful, I’m disgusted. And I am untouchable, coz you can’t touch this.